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The Concept of Flight

Posted by Christopher Jacob on March 30, 2011 at 7:09 AM Comments comments (0)

Raising children is not an easy task.

Take it from a trial and error parent who applies the "hit & miss" principle.


People who take initiative into putting full effort parenting their kids should be commended for doing so. It is not every day that you encounter (corporate & individual) professionals who take the responsibility "parental guidance" seriously.


As adults, we normally forget that children need a lot of s...

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Secret of the Universe

Posted by Christopher Jacob on January 30, 2011 at 10:43 AM Comments comments (2)

What the mind can conceive, the body can achieve!


Sounds like a Multi-Vitamin TV advert? Well it is - was.


I was about 10 when I first saw and heard about this TV ad.  Didn't really pay much attention as my focus was how on earth a half naked man could win a race vs. a horse and cross a cliff for that matter? Awesome was the word - the baffled boy in me thought "that pill can really do all that?" Well, the pill must have made that man go ru...

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The Wannabe

Posted by Christopher Jacob on August 20, 2010 at 10:44 AM Comments comments (0)

How true are we to ourselves?

Do you find yourself wondering who we are?  If someone asked you, who you are? would you know how to answer this question? Do you describe yourself as the Accountant who is never late at anything, or the never tiring athlete who always score the winning goal? Will you describe yourself in terms of relations - the husband of your wife, or the son of your father?

Like the rest of the people here on this planet, you prob...

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Life of Happiness vs. Life of Meaning

Posted by Christopher Jacob on August 2, 2010 at 2:10 PM Comments comments (2)

Have you ever wondered why we are here? Why we choose to be with our loved ones, with our family, right here - right now?

As far as any man can probably remember, we have always been wanting for something...someone...and now that I have been one of those fortunate to have found that someone, both of us agree to go through the common notion of finding that "something" - in sickness or in health, together.

One thing we can all agree on is that in life there i...

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Why Be Tempted?

Posted by Christopher Jacob on March 24, 2010 at 6:12 PM Comments comments (0)

"An erect penis has no conscience!", blurted out by Eva Longoria from an episode of Desperate Housewives.

If conscience is a form of intelligence, can we then surmise that an erect penis has no intelligence ?

Looking at the physiological conditions of a man, it may be true - that for some their urge gets the better of them. Others try to convince themselves that in fact it was the alcohol that made them do it, or "the distance between us has...

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What Men Really Want

Posted by Christopher Jacob on December 25, 2009 at 10:55 AM Comments comments (3)

Much has been debated about the true nature of a man. 

Like any international beauty pageant contestant, we, men too would love "World Peace".

Contrary to the belief of most women that we are but slobs, putts and inadvertently moronic and gives out the basic impression that 99% of the time think ONLY about how to get inside the pants of the very first skirt seen in sight – then maybe some of you would disagree.  As obscure as i...

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What Does Not Kill You, Makes You Stronger

Posted by Christopher Jacob on November 10, 2009 at 4:00 AM Comments comments (0)

These words were quoted by the German philosopher Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (October 15, 1844 – August 25, 1900). 


Read an online book about it recently and for some strange reason has been echoing in my head on and off for the past few days.


Anyways, this is a powerful statement that speaks about conquering pain, even as you have been buldozed to a pulp but still would have the strength to hold your head high and deal with the worst.

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Romancing The Stone

Posted by Christopher Jacob on October 19, 2009 at 5:33 AM Comments comments (1)

Married men are always on the look out for ways how to improve their game.


 If you are the Casanova that you once were before you got married and thinks that marrying your wife have put your romantic skills into hibernation or worrying where to put these "playah" moves, dont worry - you can still reactivate these skills and try to improve and bring your game to another level, with your wife or partner that is.


I am not suggesting that you bec...

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Open Letter to All Filipinos

Posted by Christopher Jacob on October 5, 2009 at 6:09 AM Comments comments (0)

To All Filipinos Everywhere:


"I used to think that corruption and criminality in the Philippines were caused by poverty.


But recent events tell me this isn't true. It is one thing to see people turn into drug addicts, prostitutes, thieves and murderers because of hunger and poverty, but what excuse do these rich, educated people have that could possibly explain their bizarre behavior? And to think I was always so relieved when petty snatchers got caught ...

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Why Do We Fall?

Posted by Christopher Jacob on September 19, 2009 at 9:05 AM Comments comments (0)

Failed midterm exams, had an argument with your loved one, car broke down in the middle of nowhere, missed the winning basket , fired from the job - we have so many reasons to feel down and out, pitiful and outright helpless at times. It is normal to feel these emotions as helplessness is a natural feeling of being human according to Jeffrey Derevensky, a psychology professor at McGill University. (source quoted from


To get through these trying times, we n...

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